Kissing Techniques

Have fresh breath and a clean mouth.

Number one turn off is bad breath! It will totally ruin any chances of getting a second chance with a girl and don't be shocked if you never hear back from the person again!

Make sure you keep some mints, gum or disposable tooth brush handy. Also when you brush your teeth, make sure to brush your tongue! Floss regularly and use mouthwash and you'll be good to go!

Before going on a date, try to avoid foods with a strong or unpleasant aftertaste such as spicy foods, onions, garlic, coffee or alcohol.

Make sure she's ready

An unwanted kiss is irritating at best. How do you know if she’s digging you enough for some lip loving?

You need to read her body language. If she inches towards you slowly, smiles at you, twirls her hair, licks or bites her lip then you can be pretty confident that she's hoping for a kiss.

Another sign that she’s ready for some smooching is if she tries to get you alone somehow. She might suggest that you go somewhere and “talk”, or ask to go somewhere that’s quiet.

Relax

Force yourself to just calm down and breathe. She’s not going to enjoy kissing you if you’re stiff as a board or shaking like a neurotic chihuahua.

Be confident

One of the greatest turn ons for girls is confidence. Even if you’re nervous inside, if you show a cool, confident demeanor she can’t help but be impressed.

Once you chose the right moment, don’t turn back. Act like you’ve done it a million times.

Note: Confident does not mean fast and aggressive. It just means to be decisive when you’re going to kiss. Have you ever seen two people try to kiss and they each turn their heads to the same side, pull back, go in again and possibly bump heads? Yeah, that’s exactly what confidence will help you avoid.

Tilt your head slightly

As you lean in slowly for the kiss, angle your head slightly so you don’t bump noses with her. If she’s already tilting her head in one direction, tilt yours to the opposite.

Close your eyes

As you get closer to her face, close your eyes. You should do this for a couple of reasons. For one, it can be kind of a turnoff looking at two huge crossed eyes up close. Closing your eyes also heightens the physical sensations and makes the kiss more pleasurable and intimate.

Start with a soft, closed-mouth kiss

When your lips meet give her a gentle kiss with your mouth closed but your lips relaxed. You don’t want to involve your tongue yet, but don’t act like you’re kissing your mom either.

Open your lips slightly

If she accepts your kiss and doesn’t seem like she wants to run away, try opening your lips a bit. Not a lot, just enough so that you could breathe out of your mouth if you wanted too.

Most likely she’ll do the same at this point. Try slightly varying the openness of your lips as you kiss. It’s not exactly rocket science and you’ll get used to it real quick.

Use your hands

Stressing about where to put your hands? That’s understandable. You can’t exactly leave them at your sides now can you? Well, you can if you want to look like a robot or an uninterested ape.

The absolute best place to put your hands during a French kiss is left hand on her hip, right hand slightly higher between her waist and underarm. Make sure your right hand’s not too close to her breast. You don’t want to be one of those guys. At least not right away.

That positioning might not be possible if you’re on a roller coaster or something. You may have to improvise. If that’s the case you can touch her back, her hair, the side of her face, her neck...it’s all good. Just don’t do anything that looks or feels stupid.

Use your tongue

She hasn’t sprayed you with mace and called the police by now? Fantastic. Time to get into some serious French kissing.

If she’s enjoying your open mouth kiss, take it to the next level by opening your mouth a little more and gently putting your tongue in her mouth. Tongues are very sensitive so the act of touching them will be very stimulating for both of you.

Don’t just go plowing around at the back of her throat. Just touch her tongue lightly and wait for her to do the same. Don’t worry, she will.

Keep the touch of your tongue and lips soft. Again, don’t probe madly around with a super stiff tongue. Follow her lead, though. If she’s kissing you hard feel free to give it back to her!

Why do we date ? Is it to meet and have a good time.?....Is it to meet someone in hopes of a sexual encounter.?..Is it to meet someone with whom you would like to spend the rest of your life with ?

It takes time to come to any conclusions of a lasting relationship....

Many of us have jumped to fast and ended up loosing a friend and feeling negative towards other relationships...

Always look ahead, the past is the past... Tomorrow is the future and thats what we should be looking forward to...

Sure the past may be in our minds but use the past as a way to better yourself. Learn from it and move on...The past can not be relived, only the future can hold happiness thats lasting... Good times and feelings of the past are gone but still in our memories...

Keep up your attitude sure re-examine the past to help you change. Those lessons we've had can be used to make us all better people and strive for better relationships both today and tomorrow..

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Chemistry and Destiny

...Sure, the chemistry is great, but has anyone ever experienced the new, the endorphin rush forever? When it is right, we move towards an emotional connection that evolves into a spiritual connection, or otherwise we each become half of the entity that bonds more than just chemistry ever will.

...We are the Maser's of our destiny and yes, it requires effort, as it is unlikely the forever plus one day is going to show up at your door... although someone mentioned they had a cute UPS man, I also have a cute FedEx lady, but she is lesbian.

...Nevertheless, I think a lot of it is a mindset, in that positive people attract both negative and positive counterparts, while negative only attracts negative, or the nurturing of positive to heal them, which never happens until the negative wants to change... and we need the wisdom to choose wisely, but be available.

After all, enthusiasm is attractive as well.

...Some people don't realize it, but are negative as hell and wonder why they don't attract someone and if they do, it is often exactly as they are and then question why it never works out.

Asking a woman out

So constantly I'm hearing from my guy friends how they are afraid to ask a classmate, co-worker, stranger, etc. out on a date.

I have one very simple piece of advice. Do not let your fear stand in your way. The worst possible thing that can happen is that you will be rejected. Honestly, get over yourself, ask the girl out and if she says no, go out with your friends and grab a drink and find another girl to go after. Keep throwing rocks up in the air and one is bound to hit someone ;)

Tip 2

"Even if man could understand women he still wouldn't believe it" -- AW Brown

Even though we as men can really never truly understand women, by using the important skill of listening, we can at least act like we understand.

Free Advice For Men - Rule 1 - Confidence

One of the biggest turn ons for women is a man who can show confidence. You ever see that short, not too handsome bloke with a hot babe around his arm. You think to yourself, 'man, how the hell did he get her'. Well my friend, it's because the guy walks around like he's got the biggest member in his pants. He walks around exuding a ton of confidence and doing so is able to attract women.

Remember though, it is important to be confident and not cocky. I know that to most people these attitudes seem interchangeable, but remember, they are not! Those who are truly confident show it with ease, however those who only try to come off confident without any self belief will just look cocky. So remember, it is not only important to appear confident but to actually believe in yourself.